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Denise Kooij

Most men understand themselves perfectly. I help them feel themselves instead.

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Desire Deep Dive Day - 1:1 session with Denise: Intimacy Coach for men
Fri 29 May
09:30
Zandvoort
Men's Workshops Personal Development Self-expression
Workshop Dominance Playground
Fri 15 May
19:30
Amsterdam
Men's Workshops Conscious Sexuality Personal Leadership
Embodied Dating Club
Thu 30 Apr
19:00
Amsterdam
Authentic Relating Embodiment Dating
Pandora - From Fear to Joy - with Ecstatic Rave
Sun 26 Apr
14:00
Amsterdam
Temple Connection Ecstatic Rave
Desire Deep Dive Day - 1:1 session with Denise: Intimacy Coach for men
Fri 24 Apr
09:30
Zandvoort
Men's Workshops Personal Development Self-expression
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Erotic Integrity for men
Thu 23 Apr
19:00
Amsterdam
Men's Workshops Tantra Conscious Sexuality
⚔️♥️The Fellowship of the Heart♥️⚔️ (Mens group held by women)
Wed 1 Apr
19:30
Amsterdam
Men's Workshops Men's Circles Temple
Desire Deep Dive Day - 1:1 session with Denise: Intimacy Coach for men
Fri 27 Mar
09:30
Zandvoort
Men's Workshops Personal Development Self-expression
“The deeper you connect to yourself, the deeper you connect to others”

About the organisation

I'm Denise Kooij. Intimacy coach and facilitator for men and mixed groups.
I'm certified in somatic facilitation, shadow work and nervous system regulation. But what brought me here isn't just a training. It's my own journey back to myself.

I grew up in a family where emotions didn't exist. I learned early to switch off my body just to get through. Finding my way back to my own aliveness was the most transformative thing I've ever done.

That's what I facilitate.

Most approaches stay in the head. The books. The talk sessions. You understand yourself perfectly by now. And still nothing changes.

I go into the body. That's where the parts live that are finally asking for attention. That want to be freed. So they no longer have power over you or hold you back from the life you actually want.
I've been working in sex-positive spaces for over 13 years and in tantra and temple work for 4 years.

I know these worlds from the inside. And I've made a conscious choice to go deeper — into intimacy. Because there is so much more available than most people have ever been shown.

I work with men because I saw how much is offered for women and how little for men. That didn't feel right. Men deserve the same invitation to feel, to grow, and to come alive.

If something in you is ready.. I'm here.

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Denise Kooij

  • Arne Meijs
    Workshop Dominance Playground

    Unfortunately our event got cancelled due to unfortunate and unforeseen personal circumstances of one of the facilitators. They handled it very professionally and personally called everyone about it after to discuss next steps. I’ll be joining next time!

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    17 May 2026 at 12:43
  • Nadiem
    Embodied Dating Club

    Had a wonderful first experience at the Embodied Dating Club. I've been a bit hesitant about dating through dating apps because that can feel so superficial these days. I feel relieved that events like this finally exist to change that. From the moment I arrived, I felt welcomed and was surrounded by like-minded people where connection didn’t need many words. Also a big shout-out to the facilitators, Ariel and Denise, who held the space with a lot of honesty, authenticity, power, and love. You could really feel the intention behind it all.

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    04 May 2026 at 18:17
  • Andres Galindo Gomez
    Pandora - From Fear to Joy - with Ecstatic Rave

    Outstanding gathering, incredible facilitator

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    01 May 2026 at 23:04
  • Anoniem
    Embodied Dating Club

    loved it. such a special event, with amazing connections

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    01 May 2026 at 14:21
  • Leanne
    Pandora - From Fear to Joy - with Ecstatic Rave

    Dankjewel lieve Denise, hoe je de dag betekenis hebt gegeven. En aan alle deelnemers die elk hun steentje bijdroegen aan een sacred space, waarin ik mij diep geraakt voelde en heerlijk heb genoten. Ik voel de deelnemers nog steeds dichtbij, wat hebben we mooi verbinding gemaakt met elkaar <3

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    28 April 2026 at 18:27
  • Tina
    Pandora - From Fear to Joy - with Ecstatic Rave

    Voor mij was deze bijeenkomst een teleurstellende ervaring. Ik had meer diepgang, intensiteit en fijngevoeligheid verwacht. Het was moeilijk om in de flow te komen, omdat een aantal oefeningen telkens werd onderbroken. Dat maakte het voor mij moeizaam om er een helende, transformerende ervaring van te maken.
    Ik prijs mezelf evenwel gelukkig dat ik als één van de weinigen heb mogen ervaren hoe het is om middenin de cirkel mijn angst te doorvoelen en in volle overgave ermee te bewegen, ten overstaan van de andere deelnemers. En dat ik daarna liefdevol werd ontvangen was ook heel waardevol. Voor een volgende keer zou ik zeggen: méér van dit soort oefeningen. Dat maakt de beleving van de workshop veel voedender en intiemer. En dat zou het thema meer recht doen.

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    27 April 2026 at 15:50
  • Obed Broersma
    Pandora - From Fear to Joy - with Ecstatic Rave

    Safe space, connect with people, connect with yourself, Denise does a great job to let out what needs to get out, the day after is giving a tired but satisfied experience…

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    27 April 2026 at 12:02
  • Michael Vrijhof
    Pandora - From Fear to Joy - with Ecstatic Rave

    Denise comes with a fantastic open, joyful and loving energy. She guides the group out of the head and into the body and experiencing what is present within yourself and in the group. Highly recommended for everyone who comes with an open heart.

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    27 April 2026 at 10:31
  • Simon Gerritsen
    Workshop Dominance Playground

    Het was een zeer aangename manier van meer leren over Dominace, goede leraressen en veel geleerd in een avond.
    Hoop dat er verdiepings lessen kunnen komen!

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    20 March 2026 at 12:48
  • Obed
    Workshop Dominance Playground

    Inmijn reis naar het identificeren van mijn archetypes een mooi inzicht in luisteren en kijken wie ik ben, miss V geeft een verfrissende inkijk naar jezelf. Intrigerende vrouw die heel transparant en vrolijk vertelt over haar ervaringen en inzichten.

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    30 November 2025 at 17:02
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    <3 thank you!

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  • Ariana Lara Norcia
    Final Closing Temple & Celebration | Ex-Partners in Magic

    Grateful to this community and Lexmy & Denise for what they brought together and held with such care.
    These temples have been eye opening, and showed me what a less filtered world would look like.
    ❤️

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    17 November 2025 at 13:17
  • Jaco
    Temple of Alchemy - Tantric Dance X Temple | Partners in Magic

    Magisch! Dit was een van de mooiste tempels die ik heb meegemaakt. Een prachtige groep mensen, lieve en verbonden spaceholders, zinderende sfeer, meeslepende muziek, heerlijke potluck en ga maar door!
    De tantric dance met Dominique was ronduit een feest! En de prachtige, prikkelende, leuke, hete, oefeningen daarna om elkaar te leren kennen ook. De tempel zelf moest ik helaas overslaan door omstandigheden, maar de avond kon al niet meer stuk. Jammer dat jullie ermee stoppen, maar er komen vast weer mooie nieuwe dingen! 🙏❤️✨

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    27 October 2025 at 20:37
  • Mike van Hilten
    ⚔️♥️The Fellowship of the Heart♥️⚔️

    Absoluut een aanrader! Verbinding voor mannen door mannen. Mij persoonlijk heeft het veel gebracht en voor mannen die twijfelen of dit iets voor hun is? Twijfel niet langer want het kan je echt brengen wat je niet snel tegenkomt.

    Denise is daarnaast een zeer prettig, open en ervaren begeleidster. Ze weet waar ze over praat, doet alles met consent, maar nodigt je en daagt je wel uit om je te open. Net waar The Fellowship of the Heart voor bedoeld is.

    Nogmaals dankjewel daarvoor 🙏

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    01 October 2025 at 20:29
  • Anoniem
    💥 Energetic Lovemaking 💥 for Couples | Amsterdam | Partners in Magic

    My partner and I had two wonderfully intimate and exiting days at Lexmy and Denise’s Energetic Lovemaking for Couples weekend in Amsterdam. Under the joyful and insightful guidance of both we explored our relationship and deepend our connection. We didn’t know what to expect, since it was our first contact with Tantra and it opened a completely new and precious world of breathing, seeing, touching and moving with eachother to us. We are very thankful to have been on this journey with Lexmy and Denise who radiate a beautiful authentic knowledge and curiosity and make it very easy to follow.

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    26 May 2025 at 21:42
  • Jan
    💥 Energetic Lovemaking 💥 for Couples | Amsterdam | Partners in Magic

    Lexmy en Denise zijn de perfecte combinatie om koppels verdieping te bieden in tantrische liefde. Jullie hebben een veilige, liefdevolle en heldere ruimte gecreëerd waarin wij veel hebben geleerd, gevoeld en genoten. Het was intens, verbindend en inspirerend. Bedankt voor jullie mooie werk!

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    26 May 2025 at 19:42

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