Soul Sex practice w/ Ruth—learn to slow the F down

About this event

𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗦𝗢𝗨𝗟 𝗦𝗘𝗫 𝗣𝗥𝗔𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗖𝗘 𝗜𝗡 𝗔𝗠𝗦𝗧𝗘𝗥𝗗𝗔𝗠
A 3-hour self-development practice exploring intimacy, sexuality & embodied connection.
What if slowing down could help you feel more—not less?

The Soul Sex Practice is a 3-hour, trauma-informed group practice for self-development, conscious relating, and embodied awareness.

NOTE:
𝘿𝙪𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙥𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙚, 𝙖 𝙥𝙝𝙤𝙩𝙤𝙜𝙧𝙖𝙥𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙗𝙚 𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙘𝙖𝙥𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙚 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙖𝙩𝙢𝙤𝙨𝙥𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙩𝙨. 𝘼 𝙛𝙚𝙬 𝙛𝙖𝙘𝙞𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙤𝙧𝙨 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙗𝙚 𝙘𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙡𝙮 𝙫𝙞𝙨𝙞𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙨𝙚 𝙥𝙝𝙤𝙩𝙤𝙨. 𝙋𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙞𝙥𝙖𝙣𝙩𝙨 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙗𝙚 𝙥𝙝𝙤𝙩𝙤𝙜𝙧𝙖𝙥𝙝𝙚𝙙 𝙞𝙣 𝙖 𝙧𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙜𝙣𝙞𝙯𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙬𝙖𝙮, 𝙪𝙣𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪'𝙙 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙩𝙧𝙞𝙗𝙪𝙩𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛, 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩'𝙨 𝙬𝙚𝙡𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙩𝙤𝙤.

Despite its name, this is not a sexy experience, dating event, or space for creating sexual encounters. Instead, we use Slow Sex and Voice Dialogue as tools to explore what happens inside us when we meet ourselves and others.

We believe sexual energy is much more than what most of us have been taught. For us, sex means sacred energy exchange—life force, creativity, desire, connection, vulnerability, and presence.

By slowing down, we can begin to feel what is actually moving inside us: our desires, boundaries, fears, patterns, inner voices, and genuine yeses and nos.

𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗪𝗘 𝗘𝗫𝗣𝗟𝗢𝗥𝗘
Voice Dialogue & our inner voices
Slow, embodied awareness
Desire, boundaries & consent
Intimacy beyond performance
Touch, breath & presence
Relational patterns and conditioning
Expanding our understanding of sexuality and sexual energy
Connecting without pressure or expectation
Every exercise is an invitation. You remain in choice at all times.

You may stay clothed or undress layer by layer, with underwear always remaining on. There is no genital contact or penetration.

Nothing needs to happen. There is no goal to reach.

We slow down—not to create less, but to feel more.

Come curious. Come open. Come ready to meet yourself.

𝙋𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙚 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙪𝙡𝙡 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙙𝙚𝙨𝙘𝙧𝙞𝙥𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙗𝙚𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙗𝙤𝙤𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙤𝙣 𝙬𝙬𝙬.𝙨𝙤𝙪𝙡𝙨𝙚𝙭𝙢𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩.𝙘𝙤𝙢/𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙨 𝙨𝙤 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙠𝙣𝙤𝙬 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙩.

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✨ 𝗙𝗔𝗤:
- 𝘼𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙖𝙘𝙞𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙤𝙧𝙨 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙙 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙪𝙢𝙖 𝙞𝙣𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙚𝙙? — Yes! Every Soul Sex facilitator is personally trained by Katjalisa, co-founder of the Soul Sex movement, and participates in a continuous mentorship program. This program focuses on trauma-information, mirroring blind spots, working with disowned parts, and holding each other accountable to serve the collective with integrity and care. To learn more about our values and how we take care, please read about our community care:
https://soulsexmovement.com/community-care/
- 𝙄𝙨 𝙞𝙩 𝙤𝙥𝙚𝙣 𝙩𝙤 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙜𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙚𝙭𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙤𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣? — YES, absolutely!
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙗𝙚 𝙣𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙙? — Unless stated differently, we have a ‘underwear on’ policy during all events. There won't be any genital penetration happening at any point of the evening.
- 𝘿𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙎𝙤𝙪𝙡 𝙎𝙚𝙭 𝙋𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙞𝙣𝙫𝙤𝙡𝙫𝙚 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙪𝙢𝙖 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠? — Soul Sex is a healing space. Even though our intention is not to actively dive into trauma work, some exercises might trigger past traumatic experiences. We ask you to get in touch with our team beforehand if you are aware of sexual traumas.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙖𝙡𝙤𝙣𝙚? — You can totally come alone. If you come as a couple please discuss beforehand if you are open to share experiences with others and clarify the boundaries within your relationship.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙙𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙭𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙨 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙢𝙮 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙣𝙚𝙧? — Yes.
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙄 𝙙𝙤 𝙚𝙭𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙨 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙖𝙢𝙚 𝙜𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧? Potentially, we invite you to explore beyond your gender preference and meet each other as beings to connect from heart to heart and go beyond initial preferences.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙄 𝙖𝙢 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙨𝙖𝙙 𝙤𝙧 𝙙𝙚𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙙? — Yes, please come as you are—grumpy, unsocial, totally unsexy, the Soul Sex Practice can help you to reconnect to yourself and shift your energy.
- 𝙄𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙖 𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙘𝙤𝙙𝙚? — No, you’re welcome to wear sexy clothes or show up in your pajamas. Most importantly, you should feel comfortable.
- 𝙎𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙡𝙙 𝙄 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧 𝙗𝙚𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙚? — Showering beforehand is appreciated. If you sweat a lot, bring a small towel. Please, avoid strong perfumes or deodorants.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙢𝙚𝙚𝙩 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙖𝙩 𝙎𝙤𝙪𝙡 𝙎𝙚𝙭? — The Soul Sex Practice isn’t a ‘pick up’ place.
It's about connecting with an open heart without specific intentions or goals. However, if you had a special moment with someone and want to meet up or just express gratitude—go ahead!
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙗𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙮 𝙥𝙞𝙘𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙚𝙨 𝙤𝙧 𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙤𝙨 𝙩𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙣? — No, the Soul Sex Practice is a phone-and picture-free space.
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙄 𝙧𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙞𝙫𝙚 (𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚) 𝙞𝙣𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚? — Yes, you'll receive a welcome email with event details after your registration from Hipsy with a pdf included, and a follow-up email with care instructions afterward. Your email address will be public in the aftercare email, unless you wish to to stay incognito. Please tell us.
- 𝙄 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙟𝙤𝙞𝙣, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡 𝙙𝙞𝙛𝙛𝙞𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙩𝙞𝙚𝙨, 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙬𝙚 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙤𝙪𝙩? — We offer three ticket options (Community, Standard, and Supporter) to make the practice accessible. In addition, each practice has one Helper spot available. As a Helper, you join for free in exchange for supporting the space (helping set up, making tea, etc.). Sometimes you will also participate in the practice, depending on group numbers. Reach out to join as a Helper to hello@slowsex.me
To apply as a Helper, we ask that you have joined at least one practice before, so you are familiar with the practice and structure.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙧? — No, sorry, latecomers cannot join unless they have arranged it with the facilitator in advance and the group is informed.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙚𝙡? — All tickets are non-refundable. Up to 14 days before: You can transfer to another date (email us). Less than 14 days: You may gift/sell your ticket to someone else. Send us their full name and email.

After booking, please check your confirmation email. Scroll all the way down—there’s an important attachment with everything you need to know for your comfort and pleasure.

We’re honored to welcome you into this practice—and this way of loving, living, and relating.

Let’s slow down. Together.