THE HOUSE OF EROS - A Somatic Intimacy Club

About this event

Welcome to The House of Eros - a somatic intimacy club in Ghent where erotic nightlife, conscious play & beautifully held spaces meet.

Set in a private villa, this is not a party you have been to before. It is a curated, beautiful playground for the curious, the open-minded & the pleasure-seeking who want more than rushed encounters or disconnected club nights.

Here, kink & sensuality melt into presence, consent & raw emotional intelligence.

Not a swinger party. Not a tantric ritual. Not a standard club night.

The House of Eros is where conscious presence meets unapologetic pleasure.

What This Is
++Not a swinger party. (No expectations, pressure or flat dynamics).
++Not a tantric ritual. (No rigid structures, dogmas or forced exercises).
++Not a standard club night. (No rushed encounters or disconnected sexuality).
++A curated erotic nightlife experience held through consent, beauty & presence.

How the Night Flows
#Arrival (19:45 – 20:15): The villa gates open. You step inside, leave your phone in the locker & leave the noise of the outside world behind. Doors close at 20:15 sharp. No late entry is permitted.
#Opening (20:30): We &. A guided collective grounding to drop from your head into your body, set the agreements & align the energy of the room.
#Curated Spaces - The First Half: The villa opens into a landscape of designed experiences - we call them spheres. Across different spaces, you wander through intimate, playful & provocative containers. The evening is split into Round 1 & Round 2. Each space is held by expert-bodyworkers, facilitators & teachers who keep the container safe, exciting & clean. You are free to move, dive in, watch or simply breathe it in.
#Collective Breath: A short transition that gently bridges guided structure into complete autonomy.
#Free Flow - The Second Half: Structure melts. The villa transforms into a pulsating playground of sound, movement & raw erotic electricity. The techno/house dancefloor comes alive, the bar flows & the spaces open up. This is a container of absolute allowance. No heavy guidelines, no forced interactions. Just an invitation to dance, flirt, play, explore kink & follow your desires with awareness & respect.
#Closing (02:00): We gather to close the container & transition back into the night.


----Our Curated Spaces: The Three Spheres of Eros----
No edition is ever repeated!

For every gathering, the three spheres are completely reimagined with new topics, new atmospheres & new expert facilitators. Each space offers a distinct portal into erotic embodiment, intimacy, play & transformation - creating a fresh journey every single time. Guided by our expert facilitators to wake up your body, stretch your erotic borders & prime your nervous system for the rest of the night.

Sphere 1: Embodied Connection, Flirtation & Touch
Facilitator: Daphné Sarpyener is an facilitator & therapist devoted to awakening authenticity & aliveness, working at the edge of what is known. https://www.instagram.com/daphnesarpyener_coaching
Details: The Kissing Carousel
Ready to get a little high on connection? Join us for a 90-minute voyage through the slow-burn art of kissing.
In this structured mingle, you will rotate through different partners of all genders, exploring the irresistible steps of intimacy - from the very first glance, to playful teasing, all the way to a kiss.
Because true pleasure requires safety, every round begins with a space to negotiate consent. You are fully empowered to choose your depth with each new pairing; whether that means leaning in for a kiss or simply sharing a magnetic moment of eye contact, your boundaries are celebrated here. Come ready to play, connect and let the hormones rush!
Please note: As this workshop involves rotating partners, it is not suited for couples who wish to only interact with one another.

Sphere 2: Soft Kink & BDSM Exploration
Facilitator: Leanna from Thorns - Sensory Studio Ghent - https://www.thorns.be
Details: Soft Entry into BDSM

Sphere 3: Connection & Movement
Facilitator: Andrew - an expert for sensual dance, connection & kinky guidance
Details: Tantric Dance


Safety, Space Holding & Consent
++The Angel Team: Throughout the night, a team of Angels will be present & visible. Their role is to support consent culture, offer grounding, help de-escalate unclear situations & hold a safe, respectful & welcoming container.
++Consent Culture: A maybe is a no. Only a clear, enthusiastic "yes" is a yes.
Boundary Management: We are highly experienced space holders. If someone crosses a line, we step in immediately, have a real conversation & make the right call to protect the space.
++Discretion & Privacy: Strictly no photography or filming. Phones are not permitted in active spaces (see Practical Notes).
++Safe-Sex Supplies: Condoms, dental dams, lube & sanitizing supplies are provided in all intimate areas.

Who This Night Is For
This night is for you if you:
--Feel drawn to erotic exploration, kink & play.
--Value consent, presence & emotional awareness.
--Enjoy sex-positive nightlife culture.
--Long for more depth, beauty & intention in erotic spaces.
--Want to experience something different, curated & alive.
No prior experience is required - only openness, respect & responsibility for your own boundaries & desires.

Inclusivity & Polarities
We welcome people of all genders & identities. In some of our formats, we work with masculine & feminine polarities as energetic qualities - not biological categories. These exist in everyone. You are welcome exactly as you are.
We recognize that gender is a spectrum. If you are unsure which ticket fits your journey best, reach out to us - we are happy to find the right spot for you.

Dress Code - Self-Expression in Style
At The House of Eros, your outfit is part of the experience. We invite you to dress elegantly, sensually, gracefully & daringly - in a way that highlights what you want to express & embody.

This is not a casual night out. No short trousers, no everyday casual wear, no flip-flops & no "towel party" vibes.

Think:
*Seductive but clean
*Daring but stylish
*Refined but ready to play
Your body is your canvas. Treat it like art. Whether you arrive mysterious, playful, provocative, dark, radiant or refined - this night is about self-expression through style, not conformity.

Here is some inspiration: https://pin.it/E72XbZxXM

Practical Notes
++Time: Doors open at 19:45. Doors close at 20:15. Official start at 20:30. Event concludes at 02:00. No late entry is permitted once doors close.
++Location & Parking: A beautiful, private villa in Ghent. Plenty of on-site parking is available.
++All-Inclusive: Bar with high-quality drinks & finger food is fully included.
++Phones: We don't collect your phones, but active phone use is strictly prohibited. You must leave your phone in your locker (Schrank) throughout the night.
++Smoking: Strictly non-smoking event.

Couple Tickets & Agreement:
Couple tickets are intended for one man & one woman arriving together. This helps us maintain the polarity & balance we are intentionally curating for this edition.


FAQ
Can sexual interaction happen?
Yes, absolutely. The House of Eros is centered on allowance. We do not enforce complex, heavy rules; instead, we provide a safe container where you are permitted to explore. Within this safe container of allowance, guests naturally start to interact, play & connect when & how they choose.

Is nudity expected, optional or common?
Everything at The House of Eros is optional & a callback to your own responsibility. If you want to come nude, you are welcome to do so. Nothing is expected of you & the ultimate question is always: Who do you want to be in this space tonight?

Are people allowed to only observe?
Yes, of course. This is a real party. Many people come simply to meet up, connect, make new friends, new lovers or new sex partners. Observation is a perfectly valid & respected way to participate.

Can singles come?
Yes, absolutely. We offer single tickets for both men & women to ensure a balanced, high-vibe group.

Are couples expected to play with others?
Totally not. There are no expectations of any kind. You should do exactly what you feel. We create a beautiful, rich environment that invites people to play, interact, entertain others, entertain themselves or just have a good time together.

Is this LGBTQ+ inclusive?
Yes, we are totally inclusive of all genders & identities. We work with energetic polarities rather than biological categories & everyone is welcome exactly as they are.

What is the screening or selection process?
It starts right here: this event description acts as our first filter to attract the right minds. Beyond that, we are a community of trusted people, familiar faces & individuals from the best parts of the sex-positive scene. We know how to hold a container & we select & curate by our presence & alignment.

What happens if someone crosses a boundary?
We have a highly experienced & visible Angel Team. If a boundary is crossed, we will interact immediately, speak with the people involved & make the right decision to ensure the safety & harmony of the container.

Reserve Your Spot
Spaces are limited to maintain the intimacy & balance of the container. We invite you to step through the gates.

If you have any questions, please contact us before the event.
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