About this event
This is not your average dating party.
Come and meet your people at our Microdosing Party on Friday, May 1 in the center of Amsterdam. We invite you to explore ways of connection that are less through only the words but more through the body and heart. For example, image flirting beyond words, feeling inspired, being vulnerable, amazed, surprised, joyful, creative and getting to know yourself and others deeper.
Make new and meaningful connections in less performative, judgmental and more natural and authentic ways.
This is for YOU IF you are done with only swiping and surface level conversations. You’re looking for deeper connections and conversations that go beyond just personality and ‘what you like’. This is a co-created space - that will make it easier for you to go beyond small talks, starting from connecting with yourself. Instead of feeling like “interviewing questions”, we invite you to experience a full night flow of ease, connection, and inspiration to be yourself.
Just come as you are - your curiosity, open heart and even a bit of nervousness are all welcome here. Couples/lovers/people just start to date are welcome to join as well to deepen your connection in between yourselves.
Whether you meet someone special, make new interesting connections or simply learn more about yourself and your desires along the way. All are welcome here.
This night will be gently guided by our experienced facilitator team, live DJ and various artists, freshly-made Truffle Mocktail Tea (optional), guided connection exercises, and a free-flow party space.
🎟️ Get You Ticket (Early Bird available, limited spots):
https://hipsy.nl/event/190070-microdosing-party-amsterdam-dating-special
💞 Why This Event Is Different
- We slow down dating
Let go of speed dating conversations. Or first dates trying to perform your best self. Walk in and bring your mind, body and heart into relaxation. Where it simply feels good to be yourself.
- Semi-guided natural flow with ease
We’ll guide you through playful and heart-centric exercises to help you break the ice and connect with others not just through words, but through presence, eye contact, energy, movement and subtle touch (always consensual, always at your pace). Followed by a free-flow space where you can openly explore different creative spaces in the room.
- We allow ourselves to be fully ourselves
It’s not about showing up perfectly. It's about showing with honesty and integrity. Letting yourself be a little more vulnerable. Discovering what you like, what you don't, and who you truly are when you're not trying to impress anyone. And connect with others from that spaciousness.
- We connect intentionally with presence
Join because you want something deeper. This is not a hookup space. This is an intentional space for emotional openness, curiosity, and genuine connection.
Gently guided by Microdosing Mocktails Tea (optional)
- You’ll meet people looking for new ways to go out and spend time together.
Deeper ways to connect with awareness. During the evening, our bar will serve freshly-made microdosing truffle mocktails (very mild dose of 2-4 grams), as a gentle drink to relax and open up more naturally without forcing or ‘taking over’ your experiences. You can also choose regular non-alcoholic mocktails. Either way, you're welcome, and you can decide in the moment.
💫 How the Evening Flows
6:00 PM - Arrival & Soft Landing
You’re welcomed into a warm, inviting space with candlelight, music, and cozy corners. Feel into your intention, and when you are ready, head to the bar and grab your first free drink - truffle mocktail or a cup of delicious tea.
6:45 PM - Opening Circle
We begin together with a meditative sound journey to bring your attention back to yourself, and we will open the container together, and set the group intention for the night.
7:15 PM — Guided Slow Dating Journey
Led by the founding team (Lya & Leila), this part includes playful and heart-centric exercises that go beyond words, designed to break the ice effortlessly. Expect movement, laughter, eye contact, subtle flirtation, and moments that allow attraction and resonance to emerge naturally. This part involves temporarily pairing you up with different people.
8:15 PM onwards — Free Flow Connection Spaces
The space opens into different possibilities and surprises to explore beyond your mind — but also through your the body and heart - picture dancing, chatting, playing deep question cards, cuddling, gentle massaging, and creative ways of connecting…
10:45 PM — Closing Circle
We close together with some live music - grounded, warm, and perhaps with new sparks lingering in the air.
This is a CO-CREATED space where you can (yet everything is optional). This is a clothed-on, touch-, heart-positive space. All interactions — verbal, emotional, or physical — are rooted in consent, respect, and clarity. A space to be human and to be warmly welcomed.
🎁 This evening is for you if:
✨ You want to meet someone special (or at least someone interesting)
✨ You want to meet people offline and in new and deeper ways
✨ You want to build intentional connection - but without pressure
✨ You’re curious about microdosing as a healthy and optional alternative
✨ You’re looking to make meaningful connections beyond alcohol and clubbing
✨ You value consent, respect, and emotional intelligence in relation
✨ You’re okay if nothing “happens” - and excited if something does
This Is NOT For You If:
❌ You're looking to hook up
❌ You need everything to be fast and max efficient
❌ You look just for a place to get high or a bar with truffle drinks
❌ You hate feelings and deep conversations
❌ You dont’ have capacity to handle rejection
❌You’re looking for a space for healing or therapy
❌ For safety reasons, the following people should not join this session:
- Anyone who is pregnant or breastfeeding
- Anyone currently taking SSRIs, MAOIs, antipsychotics, or strong psychiatric medication
- Anyone with a history of psychosis, bipolar I, or schizophrenia (personal or in first-degree family)
- Anyone experiencing a current mental health crisis or trauma event
If you’re unsure, please reach out privately.
This is not speed dating, this is a space where flirting meets depth, and connection unfolds naturally. Slowly.
📍 Practical Info
When: Friday, May 1, 6:00 PM - 11:00 PM
Where: Parlour, Amsterdam
Cornelis Troostplein 23, 1072 JJ Amsterdam
A Welcome Email with more details & prepration will be sent to you a few days before the event.
What's included:
Entry to all activities and inspirations
Mindfully created space to connect deeper and more authentically
First microdosing tea (or regular tea), after the first drink, you will have to pay yourself at the bar - we limit it to max 3 drinks at this event
Nutritious & yummy snacks throughout the party
💫 What past participants say?
"As usual, a beautiful experience of expression in a safe and welcoming environment. Leila and Lya's energy are absolutely amazing and it's always an absolute pleasure to share the space with them." - Oliver
"Definitely exceeded my expectations, was outside my comfort zone but the team and attendees made it comfortable and exciting! I also gained some personal insights to reflect on, looking forward to going again! Thank you all" - Kasim
“Geweldig! Super "human connection." Goed organizaren, controleren, leiderschap. Lekker eten, music, enz. Mooi uitzicht op de water. Beetje te heet met zoveel mensen in dat ruimte. “ - Steven
"Safe, open, deep connections and great vibes. " - Ana
“Well organised and a good opening space thanks to Leila and Lya” - Jule
🤝 Your Hosts
Leila Li:
https://www.leilali.com
Lya Serrano:
https://www.thevisionary.institute
💫 Common Q&A:
1. What is microdose and microdosing tea?
A microdose here is a low/mild dose of legal-psychedelic truffles (normally 1/10 of a regular dose). Some people microdose for better mental health, personal growth, or just to explore deepening their social interactions.
How it works?
The tea contains a very small amount of magic truffles (legal in the Netherlands). Likely you will feel more relaxed, heart open, and connected to your authentic self, but you’re pretty much sober and functional.
Effects might include:
- Feeling slightly more chatty and curious about others
- Colors seeming a bit brighter
- Increased appreciation for senses, music and touch
- Improved sense of wellbeing and connection
During this event we invite our partners: Happy Tea. Happy tea blends healthy and delicious tea blends with microdose that make you feel more relaxed, socially connected, and enjoying an uplifting, safe atmosphere.
2. Do I have to take the microdose?
This is just an option. Although you are invited. Non alcoholic drinks are also available.
3. What age are people?
Mostly around 25–55. Most people are late 20s to late 40s.
4. Will I be tripping with microdosing?
No. Microdosing is very subtle. The way we serve it makes it more smooth and gentle. You may feel more relaxed, aware and heart opening.
5. Do I come alone?
Yes! Most people do since it’s a dating special. You are also invited to come as a partner to connect more deeply with each other or with others (please check and align your relationship agreement first).
6. How about gender balance?
We do our best to keep a relative balance in male/female/others genders.
📍 Amsterdam · May 1st, 2026
🎟️ Get Your Ticket now:
https://hipsy.nl/event/190070-microdosing-party-amsterdam-dating-special
If you have any question, feel free to reach out to welcome@leilali.com or whatsapp + 31 613596848. Looking forward to journeying with you soon!
With love,
Leila & Lya