About this event
An introduction to New Tantra to explore play, sensuality and connection with like-minded men in the beautiful Pyrenees Mountains.
Tijs, Pinto, & Firefly organize a wonderful Sensual Tantric Massage Retreat for men every year. This year, it takes place during Easter, at a beautiful new location in the mountains of southern France. Come discover New Tantra or deepen your experience, discover your playfulness, sensuality, and deeper connection in a group of like-minded men from all over Europe.
The Retreat
In four full-day workshops, you can playfully explore your sensuality and create a connection with like-minded men. We do this against the breathtaking backdrop of the magnificent French Pyrenees, full of majestic mountains and charming villages. There's plenty of time for rest, relaxation, and conviviality.
The Venue
Hotel Hi Pyrenees, Bagnères-de-Bigorre, France
A charming, four-story Basque-style hotel surrounded by a 4,000 m² private garden, offering breathtaking panoramic views of snow-capped mountains (covered with snow for eight months of the year). Located in France's only Dark Sky Reserve, you'll have the chance to admire the Milky Way without light pollution.
Modern amenities include free Wi-Fi, a fully equipped kitchen, a washing machine, and streaming services. There's also a cozy dining area, sitting areas, and a desk. Double and multi-person rooms are available. The surrounding area offers excellent hiking, skiing, and golfing opportunities.
Your investment
Standard price: €750.00
Discounted "Early bird" price for early bookings (until February 1, 2026): €725.00
Discounted price for young people (up to 35 years old): €700.00
Discounted price for students and refugees: €650.00
Prices include 4 workshop days, 3 overnight stays, 3 x breakfast and 3 x dinner.
The Team
Pinto is a massage therapist from Rio de Janeiro, Brazil. He naturally combines theoretical knowledge with empathic intuition in his approach to clients. Since moving to London eight years ago, he has further developed his techniques of touch and intimacy. Since 2020, he has been giving workshops on intimacy and playfulness throughout Europe. He holds an ITEC diploma from the prestigious London School of Massage.
Tijs is a classically trained massage therapist and life coach who also works with various modern forms of bodywork, including Alchemy of Touch, Myofascial Energetic Release, and Deep Muscular Techniques. He has also taken several tantra courses, including at the School for Tantra (Amsterdam) and Armin Heining's Gay Tantra (Berlin). During his massage and tantra sessions, you will feel his presence, tranquility, and attention. Since 2015, he has been organizing workshops and multi-day retreats on meditation, tantra, massage, and cuddling.
Firefly has been a Tantra facilitator since 2015. He is trained in tantric massage, gay male tantra, Reiki, and tantra yoga in India, and combines physical healing with spiritual growth. As a certified trauma therapist, he helps GBT+ and trans men release shame, reconnect with desire, and awaken their sensual, liberated selves. Firefly has taught worldwide and creates safe, transformative spaces for deep connection, healing, and empowerment through tantra. He will be assisting us during the retreat.
Questions and answers
For whom?
The Tantra Oasis is for anyone who identifies as male. Most participants are GBT+ (gay, bisexual, trans, and non-binary) men, but straight men who are open to touching other men are also very welcome. For every man who wants to bring more awareness in their lives. No previous experience is required.
Are couples also welcome?
Both individuals and couples are welcome. During the workshop, we'll work in pairs and groups. For each exercise, you can choose to work with your partner or share your experiences with others.
Will I feel safe and comfortable, doing Tantra with other men?
We offer a safe space to explore your mind and body. While non-sexual, some workshops include nudity, massage, arousal, and sensual stimulation. Everything is done within your boundaries and with your consent. You can join or leave any exercise at any time. We are ready to support you any time.
How to get there?
The best option is to fly to Tarbes-Lourdes Pyrénées Airport (LDE). It's only 25 minutes from the hotel. There are also many flights from Paul Pyrénées Airport, including from Amsterdam. You can also take the high-speed train (TGV) to Toulouse and then the local train (TER) to Tarbes.
Spoken language
English, Dutch, German, Portuguese