Advanced Slow Sex SPECIAL: POLARITY & VOICE DIALOGUE with Katjalisa

About this event

𝗥𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹𝘀 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗕𝗿𝗮𝘃𝗲. 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗹𝗼𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗕𝗼𝗹𝗱.
A deep, experiential journey into your inner landscape, for those ready to meet themselves with courage, curiosity, and truth.

This Sunday Special is designed for participants who feel called to work at depth. It is therapeutic, emotionally revealing work that asks for grounding, readiness, and a willingness to meet yourself honestly. We strongly recommend having joined at least one Thursday practice beforehand, as it provides a foundation in Voice Dialogue and supports safe engagement with this deeper work.

About the Work
This workshop bridges inner psychology, embodied experience, and conscious erotic exploration. Voice Dialogue, developed by Drs. Hal and Sidra Stone, views the psyche as a constellation of inner selves that shape how we feel, desire, protect, and relate. Instead of fixing or suppressing these parts, we meet them with awareness, cultivating the Aware Ego, the capacity to hold multiple truths without being dominated by any single one.

Within the Slow Sex context, this work brings depth to erotic self understanding. When bodily presence is paired with insight into the inner selves behind desire, intimacy becomes an integrative and transformative practice. Many inner selves exist in polarity, such as vulnerability and protection or closeness and space. When both sides are met with respect, inner conflict softens and choice becomes possible.

Why This Matters
Polarity work supports emotional clarity, inner safety, deeper intimacy, and conscious navigation of desire. It is foundational for exploring fantasies in an embodied and responsible way.

What We Will Do
Guided polarity explorations, Voice Dialogue demonstrations, embodied rituals, energetic work, reflection, and integration practices. This is experiential and therapeutic work rather than theory.

Ceremonial Microdosing Optional
We begin with a gentle ritual dose of ceremonial chocolate to support grounding, openness, and presence. At this light dose, microdosing brings you closer to yourself rather than away. It can enhance somatic sensitivity, soften resistance, and support emotional clarity. Participation is always optional.

This Workshop Is For You If You
Feel curious about your inner world, ready for deep therapeutic work, interested in intimacy dynamics, drawn to conscious erotic self understanding, and grounded in or familiar with Voice Dialogue basics.

You Will Leave With
Greater emotional grounding, insight into your polarity landscape, tools for conscious exploration of desire, and a stronger Aware Ego.

Facilitation
Facilitated by Katjalisa, who bridges academic depth with embodied presence. More information can be found at slowsex.me/katjalisa.

✨ 𝗔𝗕𝗢𝗨𝗧 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗦𝗟𝗢𝗪 𝗦𝗘𝗫 𝗠𝗢𝗩𝗘𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧
The Slow Sex Movement is more than a practice—for us, it’s a lifestyle, an art form, and even a form of activism that deeply connects us to ourselves, each other and nature, thus ending separation. For more info, visit: https://slowsex.me/

You will receive more information about microdosing in the welcome email you receive after booking. 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘱𝘥𝘧 𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦-𝘮𝘢𝘪𝘭 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘦𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘏𝘪𝘱𝘴𝘺!

✨ 𝗙𝗔𝗤:
- 𝘼𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙖𝙘𝙞𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙤𝙧𝙨 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙙 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙪𝙢𝙖 𝙞𝙣𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙚𝙙? — Yes! Every Slow Sex facilitator is personally trained by Katjalisa, co-founder of the Slow Sex movement, and participates in a continuous mentorship program. This program focuses on trauma-information, mirroring blind spots, working with disowned parts, and holding each other accountable to serve the collective with integrity and care. To learn more about our values and how we take care, please read about our community care:
https://slowsex.me/community-care/
- 𝙄𝙨 𝙞𝙩 𝙤𝙥𝙚𝙣 𝙩𝙤 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙜𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙚𝙭𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙤𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣? — YES, absolutely!
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙗𝙚 𝙣𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙙? — Unless stated differently, we have a ‘underwear on’ policy during all events. There won't be any genital penetration happening at any point of the evening.
- 𝘿𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙎𝙡𝙤𝙬 𝙎𝙚𝙭 𝙋𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙞𝙣𝙫𝙤𝙡𝙫𝙚 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙪𝙢𝙖 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠? — Slow Sex is a healing space. Even though our intention is not to actively dive into trauma work, some exercises might trigger past traumatic experiences. We ask you to get in touch with our team beforehand if you are aware of sexual traumas.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙖𝙡𝙤𝙣𝙚? — You can totally come alone. If you come as a couple please discuss beforehand if you are open to share experiences with others and clarify the boundaries within your relationship.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙙𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙭𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙨 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙢𝙮 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙣𝙚𝙧? — Yes.
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙄 𝙙𝙤 𝙚𝙭𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙨 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙖𝙢𝙚 𝙜𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧? Potentially, we invite you to explore beyond your gender preference and meet each other as beings to connect from heart to heart and go beyond initial preferences.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙄 𝙖𝙢 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙨𝙖𝙙 𝙤𝙧 𝙙𝙚𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙙? — Yes, please come as you are—grumpy, unsocial, totally unsexy, the Slow Sex Practice can help you to reconnect to yourself and shift your energy.
- 𝙄𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙖 𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙘𝙤𝙙𝙚? — No, you’re welcome to wear sexy clothes or show up in your pajamas. Most importantly, you should feel comfortable.
- 𝙎𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙡𝙙 𝙄 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧 𝙗𝙚𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙚? — Showering beforehand is appreciated. If you sweat a lot, bring a small towel. Please, avoid strong perfumes or deodorants.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙢𝙚𝙚𝙩 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙖𝙩 𝙎𝙡𝙤𝙬 𝙎𝙚𝙭? — The Slow Sex Practice isn’t a ‘pick up’ place.
It's about connecting with an open heart without specific intentions or goals. However, if you had a special moment with someone and want to meet up or just express gratitude—go ahead!
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙗𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙮 𝙥𝙞𝙘𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙚𝙨 𝙤𝙧 𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙤𝙨 𝙩𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙣? — No, the Slow Sex Practice is a phone-and picture-free space.
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙄 𝙧𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙞𝙫𝙚 (𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚) 𝙞𝙣𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚? — Yes, you'll receive a welcome email with event details after your registration from Hipsy with a pdf included, and a follow-up email with care instructions afterward. Your email address will be public in the aftercare email, unless you wish to to stay incognito. Please tell us.
- 𝙄 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙟𝙤𝙞𝙣, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡 𝙙𝙞𝙛𝙛𝙞𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙩𝙞𝙚𝙨, 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙬𝙚 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙤𝙪𝙩? — Yes, we’re open to see how we can support each other.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙧? — No, sorry, latecomers cannot join unless they have arranged it with the facilitator in advance and the group is informed.
- 𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙡𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙪𝙖𝙜𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜? — All our events are hosted in English, and fluent English is a prerequisite for participation.

✨ 𝗜𝗠𝗣𝗢𝗥𝗧𝗔𝗡𝗧!
Registration closes 2 hours before. Want to join last-minute? Check in with in Katjalisa +31 6 24555311

𝙒𝙚’𝙧𝙚 𝙡𝙤𝙤𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙥𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙬𝙖𝙮 𝙤𝙛 𝙡𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜, 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜. 💕

𝗖𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲𝗹𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 & 𝗧𝗶𝗰𝗸𝗲𝘁 𝗣𝗼𝗹𝗶𝗰𝘆
Please note: All tickets are non-refundable.

𝘜𝘱 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘸𝘰 𝘸𝘦𝘦𝘬𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘯𝘵
You may transfer your ticket to another date (subject to availability).
To do this, email us at hello@slowsex.me no later than 14 days before the event.

𝘓𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘵𝘸𝘰 𝘸𝘦𝘦𝘬𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘯𝘵
Your ticket becomes non-transferable.
However, you’re welcome to sell or gift your ticket to someone else.
If you do, please email us their full name and email at hello@slowsex.me so we can welcome them with care.

Thank you for understanding—this helps us maintain the integrity of the space and honour the work that goes into creating it.